Bethy Write

My take on the AMVCA dress Invoice. Outside the Nigerian setting, you won't see wives of Mark Zuckerberg, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett or Tim Cook's wife owner of iPhone company  pay millions of dollars on a dress for an occasion.  Even in Nigeria, you won't see Tony Elumelu's wife, Otedola's wife or Influential people in the business cycle wearing a dress worth millions just to attend an occasion. Not because they can't afford it but because they are business minded people and they know when money is being wasted on things that don't have Value or things that won't generate more money. Don't get me wrong, it's not bad to look good on expensive dresses, and I also know that some people derive joy in looking good or maybe trying to Impress or intimidate others with their outfits.  The bottom line is, you need to know when something is 'Important' but not necessary or when you 'Want' som...

The Flight Trip with Mrs Dami, by Bethy Write One of the leisure period with my mum Mrs Johnson, I discussed about relocating to a new city to find a job, that might have more pay than what I earn from my Teaching job. When I raised the topic, my mum objected that she doesn't want me to be too far from her. She added, I am so scared of the insecurity in the Country, I want you around so I can guarantee your safety even if Safety is of the Lord, we still have to help ourselves she exclaimed. But why are you so scared mum I asked, you won't understand my daughter, I became so scared after the incident Mrs Dami told me about her husband. Who is Mrs Dami, I asked my mum, she is my gist partner on my Flight to Abuja last weekend. Her name is Mrs Dami, she sat close to me, on the flight to Abuja for the Women conference. We got talking about a lot of things and finally landed on how she lost her husband during a business trip he went for in one of the Cities. When I a...

5 different plates of OKRA soup with different taste. 1st plate was prepared with melon. 2nd plate was cooked with curry leaves 3rd plate was prepared with hot leaves 4th plate was cooked with bitter leaves 5th plate was cooked with vegetable leaves. What changed their taste is the ingredients and the manner each was prepared. What makes you different despite thousands of people out there, seeking the same thing you seek in life is the manner in which your heart is prepared to achieve it. My father says "when it is in your heart, God will place it in your hand" -David Ibiyeomie Do not look at the crowd to determine your reach in Life, communicate with your heart till you get to the Peak of Success. Remember the 5 different Okra soup, whose ingredients and the way it was Prepared determined the taste. Lessons from the different Okra soup: 1. LEARN TO LOOK DIFFERENT IN THE CROWD. 2. LEARN TO APPLY DIFFERENT METHODS TO GET RESULTS. 3. LEARN TO TASK ...

There come a time in everyone's life where we need to break some boundaries that have limited us from achieving our goals like; Starting up a desired business, passing with an 'A' grade, giving your first presentation, growing your company, applying for a Visa, studying abroad and lot more. To break these limitations, you have to apply the following; 1. Build Confidence in your area of Strength. (What you derive joy in doing) 2. Trust yourself enough to Utilize your Potentials. 3. Think Big and start with small steps. 4. Challenge your fears and conquer it, no matter how hard it looks. 5. Break your Routine application method of doing things or solving problems. 6.Look out for 'They language' and ignore it. (You are not they, you are YOU, you are Unique and different) 7. Accept the temporal discomfort you may face while trying to achieve your goals. In all, do not wait for too long to achieve your Goals. Procrastination shuts down ambition and Dreams sil...